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I loved this idea Jennifer White had so much that I decided to steal it.
Here goes it…
What caption would you write for the photo below? When you look at it what do you see?

Next week I will use your comments for a post. Get creative! Keep it clean!
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I was taught as a child that you weren’t supposed to hate. I never got a reason why; that’s just the way it was.
But then…
I learned that God hated things. As a matter of fact, Proverbs 16 tells us there are six thing he hates, seven that are detestable to Him.
- Haughty Eyes
- A Lying Tongue
- Hands That Kill The Innocent
- A Heart That Plots Evil
- Feet That Race To Do Wrong
- A False Witness Who Pours Out Lies
- A Person Who Sows Discord In A Family
Dr. Henry Cloud in the book 9 Things You Simply Must Do to Succeed in Love and Life talks about Hating Well.
Cloud says, “Hating Well seems like an oxymoron to most of us. We try to get over hatred because we have all seen the destruction that it causes. We usually think of hate as a problem to be solved.”
But Cloud tells us that “hate is one of the most important aspects of being human.”
“What we hate says a lot about who we are, what we value, what we care about. And how we hate says much about how we will succeed in love and life.
It’s true.
Let me give you an example from a recent experience I had.
I was surprised to learn that I had been removed from a project without notice. When it comes to things like that, I hate surprises. Being removed from the project wasn’t what bothered me. It was being removed without someone telling me first. Here’s what I would have preferred to happen: The company tells me they are going in a different direction and have other plans. I am not part of that plan. We both walk away with respect for each other and all ends well. Though things didn’t end bitterly, I would have preferred a much different plan.
And that’s ok..
Other things I hate:
- judgment
- child abuse (notice I didn’t say child abusers)
- animal abuse
- injustice
- paying my bills late
I hate evil. Most of us do.
You get the idea.
I want to hate in a way that solves problems instead of creating them.
What do you hate well? Comment below…
by | Faith Lived Out, Life Application

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God has given me a heart for those in sex trafficking. I’m not quite sure what He has up His leave regarding my involvement, but I know He has placed the desire on my heart.
Yesterday I was reading a post from one of my favorite bloggers, Jeff Goins. He caught my attention and called me to action.
Seth Barnes, the director of Adventures in Missions released this statement:
Backed by corrupt government officials, an orphanage we work with in Haiti has been trafficking its orphans. Suspecting foul play, we’ve been investigating for the last year. We’ve not been ready to go to the media until we had the facts.
As a result, the orphanage director is now in jail, but the 75 children left in the orphanage are still in danger.
A worker said, “The kids are in terrible condition — the doctor gave them some prescriptions, but we doubt that the medicine will ever be administered to the children. Instead, the medicine will probably be sold.”
What does this mean?
According to Goins, donated monies aren’t getting to the people in need. Children are missing. An eleven pound five-year old is on the verge of death.
A petition has been created to get the story on the radar of CNN.
Here’s how you can help:
- Pray. Pray. Pray.
- Sign the petition and share it with others
- Tweet this post using hashtags #cnnfreedom #endslavery & #not_for_sale
- Contact any local or national media you know, asking them to run the story. Contact Jeff for more details and documentation.
- Blog about this and encourage your readers to sign the petition.
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I have been soaking up Dave Ramsey’s new book EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches
. From someone who has an entrepeneur’s heart along with the heart of a leader, I haven’t been able to get my nose out of it.
Last night I was reading about unity. Whether you are interested in business or not, unit is something that we all need to learn about. Heaven knows I’ve struggled with being unified. Especially with EGR (Extra Grace Required) people. It can be hard to unify yourself with others when you don’t trust them or believe in their ideas.
Ramsey says of unity,
“People don’t naturally unify; they must be led to do so.
I agree. If you’re a leader, are you going in the direction of creating unity in your company? If you are an employee are you doing your part to keep unity with your team members?
Ramsey gives Five Enemies of Unity in the book that I wanted to share with you.
- Poor Communication – A team is only a team by definition when they are unified, they are on the same page. If you want a fabulously unified team and all the good stuff that brings, you will have to work unbelievably hard to create and maintain high levels of communication.
- Lack of Shared Purpose – Shared goals create unity. There is no unity where there isn’t a common goal, a common mission, a common vision, flowing from a common dream.
- Gossip – Hand your negatives up and your positives down. Otherwise it starts to sound a lot like gossip.
Here’s what I have learned about gossip: if you are not part of the problem or part of the solution, then you are part of gossip. Eleanor Roosevelt said, “Small minds talk about people, mediocre minds talk about events, and great minds talk about ideas.”
- Unresolved Disagreements – These paralyze people. They remain unsolved when the EntreLeader doesn’t know they exist. Teach your team to either resolve conflict or openly talk about it with leadership so they can get some help solving the problem.
- Sanctioned Incompetence – Team members will often take their direction from the way you treat other team members. When a team member is incompetent, for whatever reason, and leadership won’t act, the good team embers become demoralized.
We have all been a part of this list of enemies at one time or another, whether in a leadership role or being led by others. Perhaps we should print these bullet points out and place them at our workplace. We don’t even have to let others know the list is there; we can simply use it to remind ourselves of what not to do.
Perhaps if we fight against these five enemies, others will pay attention to it. We are all leaders in one sense. We’re either teaching people what to do, or what no to do.
Pick up Dave Ramsey’s newly released book, EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches. I think you’ll enjoy it.
How have you dealt with these five enemies in any given situation? Be as specific as you would like. Comment below…
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I am still trying to regroup from my experiences at the Catalyst Conference in Atlanta this past weekend. So many speakers. So much truth. So many people. Wow!
Today I want to share some great teaching from Jim Collins, author of Good to Great, with you.
After doing extensive research for his latest book, Great by Choice: Uncertainty, Chaos, and Luck–Why Some Thrive Despite Them All
, he shared what separates great leaders from good leaders, and what separates good decisions from bad decisions.
He answered the question I’m sure many of us have had at some time in our lives:
What distinguishes those characters who achieve greatness in leadership?
What do you think the answer is?
It’s not personality..
It’s not charisma…
It’s humility…
Humility is the essence of leadership.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m learning that leading is about letting our mistakes be known to others around us. Not only so that we can grow from them, but so others can as well.
Collins says, “The only mistakes you learn from are the ones you survive.”
However, humbling ourselves isn’t the only thing we must do to achieve greatness. Greatness requires:
- Fanatical Discipline – The greater the chaos, the more discipline required.
- Empirical Creativity – The world needs us to creatively solve major problems.
- Productive Paranoia – Instead of having fear, we have ask, “What if?” We have to be prepared for the things we can’t predict.
He asked this question as he closed the session:
How do we make ourselves useful in uncertain times?
How are you making yourself useful? Comment below…
by | Faith Lived Out, Life Application
If someone were to ask you today if you were satisfied with your prayer life, what would you say? Yes? No? Maybe? I guess?
So…
I’m asking you, are you satisfied with your prayer life? Perhaps you want to learn more. I know I certainly want to learn more about the power of prayer and how to apply it to my life.
That’s why I’m happy to announce the launch of a new online Bible Study, hosted by me and my fabulous friend Jennifer White. We recently finished hosting The 4:8 Principle Bible Study and it was amazing! Lives were changed. Relationships were restored. Forgiveness took place. Attitudes changed.
I can’t wait to see what God does in this next study.
Want to know the cool part?
Jennifer and I are actually co-hosts, as Jennifer Kennedy Dean, the author of Live a Praying Life: Open Your Life to God’s Power and Provision
, has agreed to join us in hosting the Bible Study. Exciting!
Dean’s book will make it easy to understand prayer—its purpose, process, practice, and promise as they look at prayer through God’s view—His Word.
If you want more detailed information on the study and what the book is about head on over to Jennifer’s recent post and check it out.
Here are the basics:
- Starts Monday, October 10th and goes for 13 weeks.
- Live a Praying Life Bible Study Group on Facebook (click the link and ask to be added). Jennifer, myself, or the author will post assignments, invite you to share from certain parts of the lesson, and more. Our posts will be viewed only by those in the private/closed group. Interaction is welcome, but not required.
There’s still time to order your book. This is a study you don’t want to miss. Get it here today!
Tell your freinds about it and invite them here to learn more.
Is there another Bible Study you recommend that would be great for our next study? Comment below…